PSA: Newsflash MEN!

Men please take notes!

Women DO NOT like men that are always kissing their ass! We don’t like a push over (because you seem weak in our eyes), not saying you can’t be nice just don’t get taken advantage of. We like the NICE ASSHOLES! You know, the romantic gentlemen that has no issue putting a woman in her place (when need be), the trick is to do so without making us feel like you’re in charge!

STOP trying to make everything PERFECT, because NOTHING in this life is PERFECT. It’s simple women are emotional creatures, we think things through because we need a sense of control. Men are the complete opposite, they are simple minded. It’s black or white with very little gray area for them. Unlike women who tend to complicate shit just because!

P.S. A woman is never 100% happy & we can’t explain why, so stop trying to figure it out! NEWS FLASH if we can’t put our finger on it, how can you?

LOVE WINS!!! Victory in the Name of LOVE

This is a proud day for the gay community!!! I couldn’t be happier & am most definitely proud to say that I support SAME SEX marriage. Who am I to say who a person can and cannot love? LOVE is blind, it doesn’t see color nor does it see sex gender…all it knows is what the heart feels! Congrats on a tremendous victory to all!

Gay Love Quotes Tumblr

LA Times reports — WASHINGTON – With a victory in the Supreme Court now behind them, backers of same-sex marriage declared a new goal Monday – a five-year campaign to strike down the laws in the remaining states that prohibit such unions.

The legal trail that led from the passage of Proposition 8 to its invalidation took five years, Chad Griffin, president of the Human Rights Campaign, told a cheering group of supporters massed on the sidewalk outside the Supreme Court Wednesday.

“Within five years, we will bring marriage equality to all 50 states,” he pledged.

Achieving that goal would require a return trip to the Supreme Court. First, however, the campaign will unfold in legislatures and ballot initiatives, said Evan Wolfson, head of Freedom to Marry and a leading strategist in the marriage-equality campaign. Gay rights groups hope that if enough states adopt laws allowing same-sex marriages, the Supreme Court will be willing to overturn the remaining statutes, much as it did in 1967 when it struck down laws that banned inter-racial marriages. FULL STORY

Gay Love Quote

DIY (Do It Yourself) Valentine’s Gifts For Him

I know that Valentine’s day is one of those days that MOST men feel is a HALLMARK holiday! I totally AGREE but however we LADIES still like to be showered with extra affection on this day. Since times are hard for most, I thought it would be a great idea to post some DIY gifts you can make at home…that are inexpensive & most of all they are made by YOU…how much sweeter can you get. NOW LADIES I get that VALENTINE’S DAY is supposed to be for us (mainly) but that doesn’t MEAN you shouldn’t do something for HIM…if you don’t do gifts then make sure you are WEARING something sexy before bed…show your man a GREAT TIME & give him a THANK YOU he will never forget!

Trophy Coat Rack

(such a clever idea…especially for the sport fanatics & a great way to display trophies that collect dust.) You can also paint the wood, spray paint the trophies to get a little more funky with it…maybe MOD PODGE some sport clips from the newspaper. There are so many different ways to freak this one!

trophy coat rack


Sock Bouquet

(replacements for the socks the washer tends to eat). Or you can do boxers…even ties as well!

Sock Bouquet


Love/Memory Maps Picture Frame

(cute way of capturing memorable moments, you can use printable maps to create a collage (see below). Maybe where you 1st met, vacation spot, where you got married (if you are married), maybe where he grew up, went to school etc…you can either make it about you two or about him)

love maps



Up-cycled Necktie Camera Strap

(totally AWESOME for those men that are into photography!) This is a sure winner!

necktie camera strap


Homemade Beer Labels

(cute idea! six pack of his favorite beer/ale with little love notes. you can even keep the bottle as vases later on!)

homemade beer labels


52 Reasons WHY I LIKE/LOVE YOU Deck of Cards Mini Book

(totally inexpensive to make & how cute is this?!?!)

50 reasons why i like you book


Valentine’s Day, SHOULD Be EVERYDAY

From a woman’s perspective I totally get the MUSHY sentiments behind this day, but in all honesty you should feel LOVED everyday. If you are a GREAT WOMAN to your man, then he should be a GREAT MAN and appreciate you everyday. Not just on a HALLMARK CARD DAY like today, of course we all LOVE to be spoiled, wine and dined, taken out to the movies, flowers bought for us but these actions should never stem from a “it’s VALENTINE’S DAY” so I have to do it.

LOVE is not a holiday type feeling, it is a feeling that grows everyday. Especially, when you know in your heart that the person (your significant other) is the one. You (both men/women) should express your LOVE on a daily basis, it doesn’t necessarily have to entail a gift. It just means that you are taking the time, making the effort to let that person know…just how much you care for them.

Do you LOVE the person more today because it’s VALENTINE’S not at all, this day was MOST LIKELY made up by a WOMAN that was lacking LOVE…saying this DAY is the DAY a MAN should go all out for his WOMAN, I think it’s just crazy SH*T period!!!!

In my honest opinion I think it should be vice-versa, if a WOMAN has a GREAT MAN she should be wooing HIM on this day. Think about it besides Father’s Day (what if your MAN has no kids) what other DAY is dedicated to APPRECIATING A GREAT MAN? NONE, so why is that we WOMAN think that today is all about US? I personally think that WOMEN should make more of an effort on this day, especially if she has a GREAT MAN. Yes it takes a GREAT MAN to KEEP a GREAT WOMAN but I think we are far more appreciated than the MALE SPECIES.

For me materialistic things have NEVER mattered to me and/or flattered me, but knowing that my MAN has my back…when all odds are against me is what will make me NOT STRAY. Knowing my MAN is stronger than me and in my moments of weakness & can give me strength, is what will make me STAY.

Gifts can be bought at any time or any other holiday, but to give someone your HEART and truly LOVE them is the most precious gift of all.

However, shout out to all you LOVERS…may your day be filled with FUN & LOTS OF HUMPING!!! LOL

Only Once In a Life Time

Every time I see your text  I smile,

Making my heart flutter a million beats per minute,

I picture myself in my birthday suite,

Kissing you while I use my tongue in an artistic style,

When I see your face,

I gasp for air as if I just ran a race,

I wish I could be held by you,

It would be like a dream from my point of view,

I truly believe that it’s only once in a LIFE TIME,

That you find your partner in CRIME,

The way you make me drip,

Is like a sunken ship,

It just isn’t fair that I am here,

What I would do so we could just disappear,

You have me OPEN, you really have no idea,

So I will make like Aaliyah,

Send you a 4 page letter,

Hoping you ain’t ever had anything better,

Got me feeling like a high school student,

Knowing I should be prudent,

I truly believe that it’s only once in a LIFE TIME,

That you find your partner in CRIME,

Some may say it’s wrong,

But I’ve never been one to prolong,

So I’m gonna take a LEAP,

Because I could give a BLEEP,

About being right because it feels so good,

Only if we could…








Thank you, Jesse James [Jesse Cheats On Kat With 19 Women]

OUCH!  a letter from Kat Von D to Jesse James, today marks the 19th girl that she added on her list, of whom Jesse cheated on her with…hopefully, she stays away…I wish you best KAT!!!

Never have I felt so strong about True Love, than I do today.  I believe in Love more than anything else, and more than ever before. 

Today I encountered the 19th girl to add to the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year.

I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to release and let go of any residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship.  All of this may sound petty or immature to some, but I assure you this is coming from a place of pure honesty and love.

There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people’s ability to change for the better.  Although this was not a primary purpose in the relationship, I did feel like it would be a positive thing for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible – even in the people who seem hopeless.

I still believe that, even if that change never occurs inside of him – because I see proof of change everyday – in others, and in myself.

I’m far from perfect, but am willing to examine myself, and my patterns of dysfunction, and then put in the work to better myself.  It’s a daily practice, but it’s working.

Sure, its easy to tell someone, “I told you so” especially if you’re criticizing someone from the outside, but that attitude comes from a place called Ego, and not Love.

I know I deserve a big fat  “I told you so,” from everyone, and wish I didn’t have to say, “You all were more right than you’ll ever know” but you were.

Not to worry, I’ve gladly paid the consequences for every mistake I’ve ever made, but learned so much from each of them.

Yes, I am pretty tired of getting mistaken for the girl who everyone believes to have broken up Jesse and Sandra’s marriage, just because I have black hair and tattoos like that other gal.  That does get a quite annoying at times, and it would be nice to not be associated with her, but that’s trivial in the grand scheme of things.

I think it just made me sad today to imagine him still in that dark place – where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual.

I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo – but this isn’t about any of that.

This is about me making peace with myself, and forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes.

I don’t want to sink into the feelings of regret, or resentment.

Because right now, for the first time in my life I have felt regret,  (for someone like me, who’s never felt that before, this is hard to say out loud).

Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that’s the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You.

It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity.

Life is far too grand to focus on the negative and put each other down.

Sending Love and Light to everyone, especially those who weren’t always so kind,

Kat Von D


If I’m your star does that make you my universe?

I want to be one of your first & last thoughts each day,

I don’t ever want to feel pushed away,

You can be my WIZ, if I can be your WAND

Let’s cup the whole WORLD in our HANDS

If you promise to always make an EFFORT, I will always be WILLING

If you LOVE me, there is NO end there’s only a BEGINNING

Baby I will be your taste maker,

Your caretaker,

If you got ME, I got YOU

There is NO stopping us TWO

I will be the floating device you use to trudge through waters; in your weakest MOMENTS

If you keep me smiling,

I will keep you laughing,

If you keep me, I will cherish you for a lifetime,

If you care for me,

I will nurture you always,

Baby be MY motivation,

So I can be your inspiration,

Be my lifeline when I’m hanging by a thread

I can give you my word,

I will appreciate you to the END.

Lyfe Jennings “Must Be Nice”

I LOVE this man!!!

A TRUE Believer

When I think…I constantly SMILE!!!

When I think of you I smile,
When I think of how you make me feel I smile,
When I think of our convos I smile,
When I picture your face I smile,
When I think of how sweet you are I smile,
When I think of your kind words & gestures I smile,
When I think of how talented you are I smile,
When I think of your touch & soft lips I smile,
When I think of your overall swagg I smile,
When I think of your sexiness I smile,
When I think of how God works in mysterious ways I smile,

I smile because he made our paths cross,
I smile because you are such a teddy bear,
I smile because you make me happy,
I smile because you are such an amazing MAN,
I smile because seeing you happy makes my heart melt,
I smile because you make me laugh,
I smile whenever I think of you,
I smile just knowing that you are apart of my LIFE,
I smile because I’ve found a friend for a LIFETIME,
I smile because you make me feel like a PRINCESS,
I smile because you truly are the sweetest thing!!!

I wrote this back in August 17, 2009, I wrote this for someone special, even though it didn’t work out he is & always will be a dear friend to me…I hope you know who you are still, because I damn near forgot I wrote this LOL!!!

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